Misogynist Cliches?

How come women still embody them? After I started working (after I left my semi arty-farty environment)I met so many walking misogynistic cliches that it would make any woman-hater lick his lips with glee! I met girls and women who: don't talk or think about anything else but shopping or they bf. who threat they bf like a walking credit card (some of these girls come from Asia or are Jewish-American-Princesses, but I don't think that makes such a difference), I met an intelligent woman who wasn't talking about anything else but her planned wedding for three months solid. Women who would be proud to be a goldddiger and look for a sugardaddy. Women who get male strippers for a hen party...I could count and count. How can we achieve anything if there are women who are willing to be cartoon females?